I was already planning this post, honestly. You are not the first person on our side of the fence to say Dee was stupid for taking Lee back. You are simply the latest (somewhere back in the dark days of the K/S thread is me yelling at everyone for it and being soundly told "don't like, don't read") and the current catalyst.
You talk about the Kara/Lee shippers reining in their crazies? Well, this is me speaking out against someone bashing a pairing that has nothing to do with Kara/Sam.
1. I read your theories. They're the same ones Kara/Lee shippers give, so I tend to discount them on principle.
2. Lee learned from his father that duty, the people, the big picture, come first. I don't care who he's married to, the woman is going to have to learn to live with that or smack him out of it.
And Lee asked Dee to take him back on her terms after she'd already proved to him she knew he'd been an ass. He knew he'd screwed up, and he apologized. The idea that he'd then go randomly sleep around on her is ridiculous.
3. Feminism is about choice, yes. Dee made a choice. I made a choice. You made a choice. We all won.
And, for serious? You think this is catty?
I said, "I think this person is wrong, and anyone who agrees is wrong. And I am really tired of this double-standard, where Sam gets a free pass because he has a penis, but Dee gets called all sorts of names because she dared to forgive her husband and want her marriage to work."
I didn't say, "I think this person is so stupid, and here's why they're an idiot. Oh, and did I mention it's *insert name here* and you should all laugh at them with me?"
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You talk about the Kara/Lee shippers reining in their crazies? Well, this is me speaking out against someone bashing a pairing that has nothing to do with Kara/Sam.
1. I read your theories. They're the same ones Kara/Lee shippers give, so I tend to discount them on principle.
2. Lee learned from his father that duty, the people, the big picture, come first. I don't care who he's married to, the woman is going to have to learn to live with that
or smack him out of it.And Lee asked Dee to take him back on her terms after she'd already proved to him she knew he'd been an ass. He knew he'd screwed up, and he apologized. The idea that he'd then go randomly sleep around on her is ridiculous.
3. Feminism is about choice, yes. Dee made a choice. I made a choice. You made a choice. We all won.
And, for serious? You think this is catty?
I said, "I think this person is wrong, and anyone who agrees is wrong. And I am really tired of this double-standard, where Sam gets a free pass because he has a penis, but Dee gets called all sorts of names because she dared to forgive her husband and want her marriage to work."
I didn't say, "I think this person is so stupid, and here's why they're an idiot. Oh, and did I mention it's *insert name here* and you should all laugh at them with me?"