Dee definitely needs someone to talk to, but I wonder if she would. It might be shameful for her to admit that her husband prefers another woman to her. That she's allowed his cheating to proceed without saying a word to him. I think Dee believes that Lee will eventually realize the wrongness in his relationship with Starbuck, and will voluntarily end it. I personally think Lee is so fucked up that he won't do it unless he's faced with the pain he's inflicted on Dee. I think we'll get that in the next couple of eps. I think we'll get that talk between the Adamas that's needed to happen since Unfinished Business.

Personally, I would have bitchslapped Kara during that meeting, but Dee's a better woman than me. Kara likes to fight. She likes the chaos, and she doesn't like to be ignores. Dee didn't give her the satisfaction of making it all about her, and I applaud Dee for that.

So Dee is the anti-thesis of Kara. She's a rules girl. She's the good girl. She doesn't sleep around. She's faithful to her husband. She's everything that Kara isn't, and people think that makes her boring. But I'll take her over Kara any day of the week. I don't need someone in my life who flies off the handle. I need someone stable. Someone who thinks before she acts. And I also believe that's what Lee needs in this new world of theirs. He needs that stability as much as he needs the rush of being in that pilot seat. He just needs to remember that.