That said, I want to smack them both. Kara for her Oh So Special Emo, and Sam for GIVING UP.

I'm a little more lenient on Kara because I think she does deserve some very special Emo time after what she went through. However, I totally agree that we need to gang up on Anders and smack the shit out of him. You would think after being married for a year that he would have learned one of the most important rules - 'When your woman is all emo and she tells you to just go away, YOU DO NOT EVER JUST WALK AWAY!' So you're right, he just gave up way too easily.