Okay, how scared am I that fandom doesn't think you should ever dump a guy if he buys you a house? If he followed you to work and got shot, calls you at your SECRET IMPORTANT JOB to ask about flowers, buys a house without consulting you and wants a dog btw? No matter how nice, that's going to have wee alarm bells going off somewhere, ESPECIALLY after Jonas Hanson.

And these people think Sam/Jack has power issues?