st_aurafina and I are the same! Except it always goes like this:

Me: Oh, that's the one with the awesome [techno-thing/plot/battle/Picard moment]
Her: But it's got that awful and embarrassing [thing with Dr Crusher/Troi-rape/moral lesson/Data-humanising]
Me: Okay, let's watch something else.

Alternatively:

Me: Oh, that's the one with that awful and embarrassing [thing with Dr Crusher/Troi-rape/moral lesson/Data-humanising]
Her: But it's got that the awesome [techno-thing/plot/battle/Picard moment]
Me: Okay, let's watch it!