Probable. I don't dislike him, I just feel like he could do a lot better. And that his suffering patience is bad for him and her. I think I'd be more comfortable with the relationship if there were more moments like the one with them in the shower after the Brandi debacle, or when she was on the phone with him after her kidnapping. There was some connection and joy there, and that's really not what's come across from Mary in the last couple episodes. And it makes me sad FOR Raph. Cuz he is kinda the perfect guy.

And, oh, PETER. The thing that makes my head hurt is that most of what he says makes sense, but not to be telling to a woman who's an Adult Child going through transition. "Love them", "let them in", "do nice things for them", etc.? It's just a big wiggy quagmire. Still, I like that he called her on letting Brandi live rent-free with her for that long. It's just. ARG, I am confused! Still. It cracked me up to see those two actors with another scene as they used to play lovers on West Wing.